
At a time when there is so much talk about the need for peace (and much focus on the lack
thereof), I’ve been thinking about how to sow peace in my own corner of the planet. I don’t just
mean the country, city, community or neighborhood I live in—I mean the literal space I inhabit:
my personal experience.
Most of the people alive today were brought up on a level of consciousness that we humans
are subordinate to some greater authority. That we are fundamentally in need of saving
because we are not OK as we are.
Whether we have been waiting on a god, a parent, partner, guru, expert, child (and on and on)
to lead us to some kind of redemption, most of us have been taught that ultimate power,
goodness and authority lie outside of us. Only recently have more people been waking up to
the realization that that ultimate power, goodness and authority actually lie deep within each
one of us.
Deep doesn’t have to mean inaccessible, although it can certainly seem that way. For
those of
us who grew up in highly controlled cultures—perhaps dominated by stringent religious,
political, familial or socioeconomic forces—the truth of who we are can be buried quite a
ways
down.
But what I really mean is that power,
goodness and I prefer sovereignty over
authority are a
core part of us. So deep within as to be
incorruptible, irreducible and innate in every
human. I
have witnessed a miraculous amount of
goodness flowing forth from “ordinary
people" who are
not even trying to change the world. Yet they
are! Our power is mighty and divine because
our
Source is so. And we have far too much
capability to change the world around us to be
waiting
on someone else to change it for us.
When that light bulb finally came on for me—the realization that I am the peace I’ve been
crying out for—I became infinitely more hopeful about the future. Not to mention a great deal
more peaceful in the present.
Why? Because I have demonstrated a tremendous capacity to evolve in my lifetime, which is
the only thing I have any control over: my personal experience. So I use and build and stoke
that power to change (to incredible effect!). Furthermore, if I can grow, so can others. I have
seen it happen in response to my own shifting, and it’s beautiful to behold. When I meet people
with love, they have the invitation to respond differently than if I meet them with judgment,
criticism and preconceived notions.
But changing others isn’t my focus because again, my point of power lies in my experience in
this now moment. What a more peaceful moment it is to inhabit. What a more peaceful world it
has created for me.
Please share your own thoughts and personal peacemaking efforts in the comments. I’m
always inspired to hear how people are sparking change in their own corners of the
world.
My name is Melissa, and I’m a seeker of meaning. I have always taken mental notes of what I
observe and experience, but recently I’ve begun writing them in public forums. Joanie has
encouraged me to do so, and it’s been an incredibly healing experience. The fact that she exists
and is sowing such goodness in her world is another reason I’m so hopeful for peacemaking
everywhere!
To read further about individual efforts we can take toward peace, check out this Substack
article entitled Pathways to Peace / Part 1. To read other pieces focused on self-reclamation
and the goodness within, you can visit my Substack home, 127 Reclamation Way.
If you’re interested in thought blurbs and quotes that center on being self-led, I invite you to
explore @thine_own_shepherd on Instagram.
Thank you, Mary Beth for sharing what caught your eye/heart. I love that! 💜
This essay is profound, wise, and beautiful, Melissa. I love this, "the truth of who we are can be buried quite a
ways
down." and it caught my eye/heart. I feel the same, " Furthermore, if I can grow, so can others. I have
seen it happen in response to my own shifting, and it’s beautiful to behold." Thank you Melissa for your thoughts.
xxoo
Thank you, Melissa, for your depth of thought and care in speaking about what matters to you. Peace is a longing within me that I continue to nourish and cultivate. When I'm too outward facing, it is elusive, yet when I am reminded to go within, pause, there 'it' is. I adore pockets, because that is often where my peace resides. No matter how small or large my pockets, I can plunge my hands into them and feel into what's there. 💜