A Karmic Completion
- spacetofeelings
- Nov 13
- 2 min read
Thank you, Tosha, for your steadfast offerings. Could you speak more to karma, and what you believe it is, how it affects an incarnation, and when it’s complete.
What if we have karma with an individual, and we desire to do our part, yet they do not.
I have a situation that I am desiring healing within, and my qualifier has zero interest, and has even said they have no energy towards working on reconciliation. What happens to the karma in situations like this? I’m trying to do my part, I don’t desire to carry this any longer, and here we are. Is my part of the karmic debt taken care of, or is it still contingent upon my qualifier?
This is a letter that I wrote into the OO forum that Tosha Silver, has been offering for over a decade now. Her reply was so healing and I will do my best to share some of what she shared as I sense it may be applicable for our community.
Our souls come in with agreements, and a curriculum that they desire to learn in Earth School. It could be forgiveness, acceptance, worthiness, surrender, fill in the blank with what you believe might be some of your agreements.
The soul is affected by the vibration we choose to hold. Once we learn what we have needed to, the restrictions are lifted that might have been utilized to not allow to come in what we believed we had to have in order to find happiness, peace, freedom, and acceptance.
Our karma with another is not contingent upon their willingness to engage or not. In my case where my qualifier expressed not to have any interest/energy. As long as I’m releasing the charge, not in victimhood, blaming or attachment to certain outcomes. Alchemizing the emotions that are coming in and intentionally releasing them. If I am actively engaged within this, I am stepping out of the karmic loop.
Taking care of my side, blessing the feelings, taking the chains off so that if along the way the flare ups and triggers come, which they will; I can clear them, and ultimately it moves into a divine disinterest. The energetic charge is not present, and the karma is no longer mine. I can bless what my soul is learning without any spiritual bypassing or pretending.
Our qualifier cannot magnetize us back to them and into the karma if we are out of the loop and no longer trapped within the emotional reactivity. Forgiveness for ourselves, the other, and bless it for the freedom it offers.
FREEDOM being the ultimate gift.
The karma is complete, it will not be traveling with us into the next place.
"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." ~ Wayne Dyer
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Oh my Joanie,
This is so very helpful as is all you share, always. And this is the work, the alchemizing, the learning, the releasing an the blessing toward the ultimate goal of forgiveness all the way around. After a lifetime of running, judging and begin full of fear I am just now at a point in my journey where I am willing to face with the utmost tenderness all that arises. I fully accept the contracts I agreed to, simple but not easy. It is such a process but one made easier by fellow travelers such as yourself. I think, no, I know, I often feel alone in my lessons and thank God for a soul such as yours…
“Not in victimhood”, oh yes. Realising how much agency I do have. Also love the Dyer quote 😍
I am pulled by the word "agreement". My agreements are a daily surrender and to show up in front of Unconditional Love daily with pen and paper and in my wheel. I like the "blessing the feelings" and I have a question about how to clear the triggers. I like the closure of the statement "a divine disinterest". Thank you Joanie for this post.💚
I took a deep breath of relief reading this. Thank you for sharing this insight on freeing myself of the energetic responsibilities of others. The Wayne Dyer quote is a perfect thought tether for this lesson!