First and foremost the ones to remain mindful of, treating with the utmost of tender care, kindness and periodically checking in with begins with us and then it can and may ripple forth. Becoming extremely tired and overwhelmed with expectations of how we might believe we should be feeling and what we are actually longing for is a normal part of the grief path. It is a learning curve and one that we will be ever changing and evolving as we do. There is no right or wrong wa